Monday, February 25, 2013

Down and Dirty in Ortley Beach: Take 2

Feb 23, 2013
 
If you missed Take 1 Find it Here!
 
The plan for the day was pumping out work orders from homeowners, getting dirty and getting things done!  The weather was horrible, rainy and cold....but that didn't stop over 90 amazing people from coming out to help.
 
Before I tell you about my trip, I want to post about an event that went on the night before. My friends raised 5000.00 for Sandy Victims. Whaaat?
 
A local restaurant here in Lancaster, PA The Waterfront was flooded during Hurricane Sandy.
Local friends Sam and Billy Baldwin had a plan! They wanted to raise money for NJ and help the restaurant. They decided to be guest bartenders for the night! What a fun event that turned out to be. They received raffle donations from businesses near and far.



Thank you to all of you who donated and those of you who came out and had a great time for a great cause! I live in an amazing community and feel very blessed. I am sure Sam and Billy are still recovering from the long night!  
 
The following photos were taken with a heavy heart. They were taken for those of you who donated or helped in any way. This is so that you can see first hand who your donations are helping. I say this every time I post photos....they were not taken by a tourist....I took them personally when volunteering in the muck and rain. I took them for you because the media is not out there. This is what it looks like 4 months later.....in a town full of mostly primary homes and families......




 
The empty spaces you see are from homes that were washed out to sea or pushed off their foundation and landed in the middle of the highway. 9 out of 10 homes you see in the photos above have red stickers on them. They will be demolished. If the homeowner can afford to rebuild....do they really want to, can they really afford to? No one is getting their insurance money due to overload on the systems and they are unsure of when that money will be released. If the homes don't have a red sticker and can be salvaged, they must be raised onto pilings 12 feet, which is not covered by insurance and I cannot imagine the cost. If they cannot afford to do this, they will be forced to sell but who is going to buy. It is such a mess and has affected so many people. The morale is bad for good reason. Businesses are not able to open back up and so many have lost their jobs. Please check out this youtube video....a homeowner tells her story.
 
 
It is month 4. I see little if any progression as a whole since I was there 4 weeks ago. Although I do know that many volunteers are there daily doing their best to get things done. I assure you I see no government assistance. Oh right....they started work on the new boardwalk. I get that it was to boost morale and get the business owners back. I disagree with the boardwalk being a priority when there are so many families left homeless. Why not spend the money getting local families back into their homes first. Well, who am I....not a government official thank goodness!
 
Can you imagine what's in the water?
 
We started our day early in the rain. Yuck. A Truck load of supplies and food in tow from a few of my generous friends! A quick stop at Wawa to pick up Ziti, Supplies and Gift Cards from a few high school friends! Thank you ladies...you are amazing!
We arrived at our favorite Americorps trailer where we were greeted by our friends!

 After playing in the rain and digging in the sand, we headed to The People's Pantry to assist in setting up their new distribution and long term recovery center. The pantry is a place where local residents who were affected by the hurricane can come to get free supplies, food and advice. Donations are coming in from all over the country. We were lucky enough to get a shipment of tools from Sears so we put together some tool boxes!
 
 

  
 


 
I can't end my blog without saying this.....for those of you who think everything is all better...it's not. You just don't hear about it in the news. I don't think it will ever be better. I think it is forever different.
 
For those of you who go to NJ for summer vacations, I think the Shore as you know it has forever changed. Lives have been devastated. History has been destroyed. I now see fear in the faces of the people that I meet. True fear that their lives are never going to be whole again. People like you and I. They are no different.
 
I cannot even imagine being in their situation. Living in a hotel or a tent with my family in 20 degree weather, jobless. Wondering when and if I will ever get to go home. Wondering when and if the government will help me. Wondering where the tax money I have work for and paid has gone. Wondering how my life could have changed so fast, so furiously. Wondering if my home that has been handed down in my family for generations will be left standing.
 
I am blessed with the opportunity to see smiles and hope restored when that same face of fear and hopelessness sees the volunteers pouring in. Amazing people who come from all over to help. Bringing food and supplies with each trip. I wish I had money to fix it all. I don't. What I do have are amazing friends, family, community and co-workers who always step up and GIVE so that I can GO! I am forever grateful. You all know who you are and I want you to know no matter how big or small your donations are....they are HUGE and YOU are making a difference.
 
I would love for you to come with me anytime. I promise this....that small dent in your car, that leaky water faucet, that couch with the stain on it, that color paint you don't like in your bedroom will be things you will be thankful for!!! I say that, because I am now thankful for all of those things!
 
 
Love, Stacey   


Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Down and Dirty in Ortley Beach, NJ

So, our trips to NY/NJ are getting a little easier to stomach. Definitely just as emotional as the first trip...but I don't get that sick feeling anymore.
 
I get the feeling that NJ/NY are serious. I get the feeling that NJ/NY are not messing around. I get the feeling that NJ/NY will be back and better than ever. I have yet to meet anyone that has said to me "I am giving up". I hear stories of hope reignited by simple acts of kindness from others.

 Along with my family, friends, coworkers and my best girl Sam Baldwin we have laughed, cried, trembled, hugged, shared, smiled and learned so much.  I have seen no turned into yes, frowns turned into smiles, tears turned into laughter, cold turned into warm, rubble turned into beauty and strangers turned into the best of friends. Once again......I am just a girl, who is so blessed and so lucky in this life that I wanted to pay it forward. Now I feel even more blessed and lucky that I was allowed to pay it forward. I want to thank NJ/NY for allowing us into your homes at such a vulnerable time. Thank you for sharing your tragedy, your stories, your souls, your homes and your lives. Thank you for allowing us to help, even though it seems so minute compared to the task at hand.  We are honored that you allow us to keep coming back......
and that, my new friends....we will.
We will never forget, we will always come back.
 



Down and Dirty in Ortley Beach NJ.....
Finally connecting with The Bucket Brigade
 and Christmas on the Island!
 
I will NEVER forget the post I put on Cassandra's Bucket Brigade wall...."hey I am coming to you next.... Jan 19th with a few friends to grill up some burgers and dogs and help out in any way we can". The post went VIRAL and within days we had 422 people coming to volunteer for the day. I couldn't believe my eyes! Courtney from Christmas on the Island said "let's do this", St. Pauls Chuch in Bayhead, NJ responded they were coming with volunteers and food! Friends and neighbors dropped off food and supplies. Rick Miller from The Back Page in Leola, PA gave good, hot food and tons of supplies! My MOM even decided to come along this time! Not only that, her boss at Tavo Packaging in Fairless Hills, PA donated an incredibly large amount of money so we could buy food and supplies for the day. Memorial Hospital and staff donated lots of good food and supplies. In came Erin and Nick Shock....Nick came forth with a HUGE pick-up truck and a 26 foot box trailer to pull all of our supplies, and some friends from Prestige Apparel too! Home owners and Business owners in need from Normandy Beach to South Seaside Park were signing up for help with projects by the dozens. Needless to say, my new friends Cassandra and Courtney had a lot of work to do to help me pull this off!

So we started collecting!

And Baking! For NJ with LOVE!


 Some amazing friends came over to help me organize....
Thank You Kristin, Kerri, Sally, Barb! I would have been a mess without you!


January 18th, it's like Christmas Eve all over again! Sam brings over car loads of supplies she collected and so does Laura. We were getting very excited now! Even our friends from Pittsburgh were coming with us and we were patiently awaiting their arrival!
Early to bed so we could get up at 5am!

January 19th Good Morning....Darkness?....5am
Freezing!


Nick arrived with a pick up bed full of fire equipment for Union Beach Fire Company from Tom Westenberger and the amazing first responders at Loganville Fire Company! Wait til they see this! The trailer was filled from top to bottom this time! Wait until Cassandra gets a look at Lancaster Sandy Savers!

And we're off......to The Barrier Islands of Ortley, Mantaloking and Seaside.

(not my own photo but unsure who to give credit to)

Not quite sure what to expect, but hoping it looks a little better than it did a month ago. It has to, right?

We arrived in Ortley Beach, NJ and met up with The Bucket Brigade and AmeriCorps. The Plan: to break into groups and get to work. There was a lot to be done in a few daylight hours. Curfew is 4pm and there is no power.
Here is what we saw.

Again, as always I would like to make one thing clear....I did not take these photos to sightsee or gawk or to be disrespectful. I took them for those of you who couldn't go but gave so much....so you could see how much your efforts were needed. The devastation is real and on every single corner, block and street. Remember when you are looking at these pictures, most of these are primary homes. Homes of families that have lived in this area for years and years. These homes are all unlivable at this time and the owners are now displaced in shelters, tents, hotels, rentals or with families. Where is the media you ask? Very Good Question. Get out the tissues.....

 
This is a bayside street.




 Part of the Midway Ride.
 Entire blocks of homes in sinkholes.
 Entire blocks of homes....gone.

 
(not my own photo but unsure who to give credit to)

(not my own photo but unsure who to give credit to)

(not my own photo but unsure who to give credit to)
 

Yes, it really is in the water. My heart goes out to these families, home owners and business owners. Will they ever be back? Will it ever be normal again?

In time.....

....time to get to work!
Wait...what? Who? From behind me I hear someone yell "cuffy"! It's my dear college friend Amy and her awesome friends from NJ coming out to help, AGAIN!

 
Mom...Dad...fire up those grills! We've got some hungry volunteers to feed!


 
We had over 1000 hot dogs and hamburgers (and buns!)thanks to so many wonderful donations. We also had countless gallons of chili too!
Who's that on the grill?? My daughter, whaaaat? Avian, so proud of you girl! You served up those hot dogs like a champ!





 Thank you to the Island Beach Cafe in South Seaside Park for letting us use their parking area and picnic tables to feed the volunteers!
No power just charcoal and sternos. What a great day!
 
The call came in from Union Beach Fire Department.  The Lieutenant said he was 15 minutes away with a truckload of supplies coming to Ortley. What? They were supposed to be meeting us at the Ortley EMS to pick up the fire equipment for their devastated fire company. They didn't come empty handed! They brought The Bucket Brigade a truckload of supplies and toiletries they had an abundance of for the new supply distribution center being set up in Ortley. WOW! Here a town that lost so much still has so much to give. It was freezing out, but I was warm inside! The kindness and generosity are overwhelming in this state of devastation. I am so thankful that my children are able to witness such selfless acts of kindness and truly understand that helping eachother and sticking together in a time of need can make all the difference in the world.
 
The emotions shared between Union Beach Fire Dept and The Bucket Brigade were priceless. They were both overwhelmed by the generosity. I love it!


 I want to personally thank Krista Murray, Sam Baldwin and Tom Westenberger from the bottom of my heart for making this connection happen.


The empty union beach fire engine is now filled with tons of equipment donated by The Loganville Fire Company in York PA. Thank You!
 
On January 19th 2013, lives were changed. Homes were gutted. Towns were cleaned up. Lost treasures were found and made it back to their owners. Beaches were rebuilt and dunes protected. Bellies were full. Hearts were warm. Tears were wiped. Smiles replaced frowns. Laughter replaced silence. Hope was created. To all of you who helped us get there....it is only because of you. Thank You.
 
FEELING THANKFUL AFTER A GREAT DAY!
 
 
 
 
 
 
Forever friendships were created!
Thank you Cassandra and Courtney for making this happen with me! 

Thank you to my amazing friends and family that continue to support me in my Sandy Adventures. I love you all.
YOU ARE MAKING A DIFFERENCE.